Your Non-Linear Path Into Therapy Is Not the Problem
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

Your Non-Linear Path Into Therapy Is Not the Problem

It took me a while to name what was actually happening: I wasn't behind. I was just non-linear. And in a field that tends to value a very specific kind of trajectory, non-linear can feel like a liability before you realize it's an asset.

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The Therapy Reading List My Grad Program Didn't Make. So I Did.
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

The Therapy Reading List My Grad Program Didn't Make. So I Did.

Grad programs assign a lot of reading. Case conceptualizations, DSM criteria, treatment modalities, research methods. All necessary. All very much focused on the clinical mechanics of becoming a therapist.

What they assign a lot less of: books that challenge the systems those mechanics operate inside. Books about rest as resistance. Books about what it actually costs to be a helper in a world that doesn't slow down. Books that ask harder questions about who therapy has historically served and who it hasn't.

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Nobody Does the Math Out Loud. Allow Me.
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

Nobody Does the Math Out Loud. Allow Me.

I knew going in that it would be hard. I knew there would be supervised hours and exams and a long road between grad school and actually practicing. I knew I'd be learning things that would take years to fully understand.

What I didn't know — what nobody really sat me down and explained — was how much of that road I'd be paying for out of pocket, while also working for little to nothing, while also somehow staying sane enough to sit with other people's pain.

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How to Write a Therapist Bio That Actually Sounds Like You
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

How to Write a Therapist Bio That Actually Sounds Like You

Writing about yourself is uncomfortable. Especially if you went into this field specifically to focus on other people. And yet your bio is often the first thing a potential client reads before deciding whether to reach out, so it kind of has to work.

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A Bad Boss Makes One Hell of an Entrepreneur
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

A Bad Boss Makes One Hell of an Entrepreneur

…But here's what I've noticed: the people who've had genuinely bad leadership don't forget it. And when they start building something of their own, that memory does something useful.

It makes them think.

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The Part of Private Practice Nobody Prepares You For
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

The Part of Private Practice Nobody Prepares You For

…And if you've ever found yourself at 11pm wondering why your Psychology Today profile is getting views but your website isn't, or whether you even need a website, or what you're supposed to say on it — you're not behind. You're just doing something you were never actually taught to do.

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Tough Love About How to Fill Your Caseload (From an Ex Marketing Leader Turned Therapist-in-Training)
Ashley Rhoden Ashley Rhoden

Tough Love About How to Fill Your Caseload (From an Ex Marketing Leader Turned Therapist-in-Training)

I'm a former corporate marketing leader, currently a grad student in a counseling program — not a therapist, not pre-licensed, just someone with one foot in each world — and I've seen enough therapist websites and social media profiles to say this with some confidence: a lot of what you've been told about marketing your practice is either outdated, oversimplified, or just flat out wrong.

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